What is a scoffer you are asking?  A scoffer is one who mocks another or a belief.  We see it in politics.  We just call it political humor. 

However in the Bible it is a serious term.  It is aligned with the idea that a mocker is intentionally trying to derail an idea, a church, or a person.  This is done through lying, false testimony, or even living a false life.  The later is called hypocrite.  A hypocrite is just a very good actor.

 

Peter states that these people will suffer destruction at the very hand of God. 

 

So what is the opposite of a scoffer.  It is a godly person, a holy person.  This person is known because their traits and atrributes are the same as Gods.  They bring peace to everyone and each situation.  They are different because they love they give is pure without any repayment or harm.  In other words, you like being around them because when they leave the room there has been healing, peace, comfort, and unity.

 

Is that you?